Learn more about Thieves Cleaner

Are you looking for ways to keep your home clean without all of the toxic chemicals? Let me tell you about Thieves Cleaner! This product is great for the DIYer and those who are not!

We all want to live in a clean, healthy home. If you have children or pets this just adds to the work that needs to be done.

For decades we have been told you have use products like bleach to have a clean home. Guess what, that’s not true. There are safer ways to keep your home clean and that is not only good for you but safe for your pets and kids!

I personally feel that with enough vinegar, baking soda, lemons, and some Thieves you can clean the world.

Take a moment right now to look at your cleaning products. I promise, no judgment from me. I used to use those piney floor cleaners, bleachy sprays, toxic fabric softeners, and even odor covering sprays. I was young, kids are messy, and I did not know better.

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Getting Started with the No-Poo Method

I am a member of some great no-poo groups on Facebook, but many of them are really strict about no essential oils. Anyone who knows me knows that oils are a big part of my life, but I have respected the group rules. In an oil group, that I am a member of I asked about No-Poo to find people interested but so far little experience. So we decided to make a new group for people interested in no-poo and essential oils. Personally, I want to incorporate all non-toxic beauty but for right now the focus is no-poo.

If you are interested in joining us, please feel free! Non-Toxic Haircare & Beauty

This is just basic information to give you a starting point.

Important Information:

I am not an expert, this post is mostly based on my own experience and trial and error. What works for one person may not work for another.

Your water type, hair type, PH, and overall health can affect your no-poo method results. It can take experimenting to find the best results and you may have to do some research. I am pretty lucky. There is pretty good water where I live and I was low poo before going all out no poo. If you use lots of shampoo you may need to start low poo first for an easier transition.

Getting Started:

  • If you use shampoo, your hair is addicted to it. Your body creates something called Sebum that cleans your hair and keeps it healthy. Shampoo removes the Sebum and replaces it with chemicals. After a while, your hair just can not handle the Sebum and your hair gets that greasy feeling.
  • When you stop using shampoo you have to go through a detox phase. This is often referred to as transitioning. This can take as little as 3 months, but in some cases as long as a year. It took me 3 months but I did not get a good balance for my hair for about 6 months.
  • Once you decide to go no poo, you will want to do your last wash. This is best with a daily clarifying shampoo. This will make the transition easier for you. Keep this around the house too for cleaning your brushes!

Things useful to have:

  • Boar Bristle Brush (Get a cheap one at first for $5 at Walgreens or a local grocery store, and replace it when your hair is done transitioning.)
  • A very fine tooth comb. (I recommend using a lice comb because they are made for removing nits from hair, and will remove waxy buildup from your hair.
  • Glass SpraBottle
  • Dry shampoo (link is to DIY homemade one)
  • A science lab in your bathroom (I kid, but sometimes it will look like that)
  • Hair Oil (Link to the recipe I use)
  • A washing method (I prefer baking soda but this will not work for everyone)

I am more of a water only method, but every now and then I need to to a baking soda wash. Since I knew from the start that I wanted water only I tried to do that as much as I could from the time I started.

  • Before my shower, I start my haircare.  I use a “hair oil” once a week. I brush my hair with the Boar Hair Brush, massage the hair oil into my scalp, then use the lice comb to move the Sebum, and oil down the length of my hair. I use two intense oils so I try to use the oil sparingly and never let it set it long. If it ever feels uncomfortable I use fractionated coconut oil or Argon Oil.
  • Use the lice comb to remove excess oil, buildup, and ick from your hair. You will want a washcloth or something to wipe the ick off the comb. In the beginning, this will be gross, but after a while, it won’t be bad at all.
  • Rinse your hair daily with the hottest water you can stand. If you are using the hair oil, you do not want to get that in your eyes so be VERY careful! If needed do your wash, and rinse again with cold water.
  • While transitioning I “washed” weekly with a baking soda wash. I used 1/4th teaspoon baking soda with a jar full of water. I pour this over my hair, massaging my scalp and hair. I follow this with a coffee rinse to keep my hair from getting too dry and it seems to help with dandruff too!
  • For a coffee rinse, I save the last little bits from the coffee pot in a jar until I am ready to use it. I still do this once a week, but only wash once every 3 months now. You can also use apple cider vinegar but for me, the coffee works just as good without the smell.
  • Lately, I have started using a Tea Rise too. I use Sleepy Time Tea. I heat the tea as normal (No sugar or milk too!) I use this when my hair is getting a little oily or after a scalp scrub or hair oil treatment. I pour the warm (not hot) tea into wet hair and “lather” my hair. Rinse the tea out with cold water.
  • I have recently learned that every now and then you will want to exfoliate your scalp. I am not sure how often you should do this, and I am still learning, but I have done one. A lot of web pages say to use coffee grounds but this is really bad for your drains so I use large grain salt or sugar and make a scrub with applesauce. Here is a Scalp Recipe I started using: Scalp and Hair Salt Scrub I also found this one too: oMega-glow face mask
  • I recently also started using something called Mermaid Hair every morning! I love this stuff and find my hair feels cleaner since using it!

I use this recipe as is, but I also fill the bottle half up with water, because my hair seems to like that better.

Other things:

These are things I have heard are really good but have not used yet:

  • egg wash
  • soap nuts
  • Indian or African shampoo bars


Updated 6/4 with new steps and things that I have learned.

Suggested Reading!

I am always looking to expand my knowledge! This year my focus is going to be on essential oils in general. I am even wanting to look into aromatherapy classes this year. I have not decided what classes I am going to take so here are some books I recommend, and some I have not yet read, but I am getting ready to! I will write up my review once I have it!

I look forward to updating this page as I have read the books, and as I find more books! All of my added comments will be found in blue. Find out what I think after I read it!


In Young Living, this is the most recommended reference book! Reference Guide for Essential Oils, 2017 Edition I can not tell you how you how excited I was to get this book!

I have not read the Oola books yet, but I think I need to. Oola for Women: Find Balance in an Unbalanced World–7 Key Areas of Life to Have Less Stress, More Purpose, and Reveal the Greatness Within You This is not out yet, but I did get Oola: Find Balance in an Unbalanced World

Essential Oils for a healthier life!

  • Essential Oils For Weight Loss: Your Guide To Kickstart Your Weight Loss With Essential Oils (weight loss strategies, weight loss tips) (Volume 1) I loved this book! I got the ebook copy of it, and I do not see that offered any longer but I really did learn a lot from this book! I knew Lemon, Peppermint, and Grapefruit were great for weight management, but this taught me beyond those 3 oils!
  • Oil Pulling: Oil Pulling Therapy- Detoxify, Heal & Transform your Body through Oil Pulling (Natural Remedies, Oil Pulling, Oral Health, Coconut Oil, Oral Cleansing) This book was okay but I am not sure I am sold on oil pulling. If you want to learn more this is a great place to start.
  • Essential Oils for Dogs: Natural Remedies and Natural Dog Care Made Easy: Includes Essential Oils for Puppies and K9’s This is a good starting point for essential oils and pets, but I would not call this a reference book.
  • Essential Oils For Beginners: The Little Known Secrets to Essential Oils and Aromatherapy for Weight Loss, Beauty and Healing I am only halfway through this book and I am very happy with it! This is great for a beginner and someone who wants to learn more about essential oils. Pull out pen and paper you will want to take notes!

Gardening Books:

  • Container Gardening For Dummies I bought a hard copy of this. I have not read it cover to cover yet, but I do love what I have read!
  • How to Grow Potatoes: Planting and Harvesting Organic Food From Your Patio, Rooftop, Balcony, or Backyard Garden (Booklet) I bought the Kindle version of this book. This book is for people who have never grow potatoes before. (That was me!) This book also has the plans for a great potato box. I think that is the box we are using this year too!

Young Living as a career!

No bad books, but not as exciting as others

  • Essential Oils: A Beginner’s Guide Revealing the Power of Essential Oils This book was not bad. It uses the British method of essential oils and I have different thoughts on that. (British says no internal use) Other than that is has some good basic info and good info for use of essential oils in beauty. I think I got a copy that was two books in one, and I was way less interested in the second book.
  • Aromatherapy and Essential Oils: A Beginners Guide (Lifestyle Guides Book 6) This book was not bad, at times it is a little overwhelming. It is worth the price if you can not afford a more complete book. Personally, I would save up and get a guide.
  • ESSENTIAL OILS:: Essential oils and Aromatherapy Healthy Recipes Guide for Weight Loss, Healing and Beauty (Essential Oils for Beginners, Healing, Stress Relief, Aromatherapy for all Occasions) This was a lot like any other beginner guides. It has good safety warnings, and great carrier oil info but past that the recipes are pretty average and the info about the oils is limited.
  • Essential Oils: A Guide to Using Essential Oils for Stress Reduction, Aromatherapy and Personal Care Pretty much like the other really basic books but it does touch briefly on essential oils and children. The other books do not even bring this up. I think this may also be a British Method book but I am not sure. One thing that bothered me is that it says to add oil to bath water. Oil and water don’t mix, you need a bath salt or something to mix with a bath.

Books I have but have not read yet!

Please note I have not read these yet, I can not say how good or bad they are yet, I honestly hope they are all good. I will update this as I read them!

Books that turned out to be disappointing:

  • 10 Essential Oils That Gave Me Freedom: How To Use Them And My Personal Story! (18 Non-Toxic Cleaning Recipes To Go Chemical-Free with Essential Oils Book 2) This turned out to be a big sales pitch for doTerra. I would like to point out I do not have a problem with doTerra but I am not happy that this book is $2.99 for something you can learn for free on many blogs or an oil 101.
  • Essential Oils: A Guide to Improving Your Mental Well-Being with Essential Oils Over priced for VERY basic info. This one is not worth your time or money. 

Things I have learned going No-Poo

This January I decided to go No-Poo. For those who don’t know what that is, it means I no longer use shampoo. I wrote about this a while back: 5 weeks No Poo!  If you look at the photos, you will see how much my hair changed in a short time.

So here are the things I learned from going No-Poo:

  • Finding the method you need takes trial and error.
  • Everyone needs something different, even if you live in the same house.
  • If you move, you may have to relearn everything.
  • Your bathroom will look like a mad science lab.
  • You spend WAY less on hair care!
  • Once you go No-Poo you rethink your other hair care products.
  • Boar hair brushes are amazing!
  • Lice combs are multi-purpose!

So let me explain the Lice Comb

So I live in Texas, and Super Lice is a thing. My kids got it, and I had to buy metal lice combs, to use for a coconut oil treatment. (By the way that worked really good!)  I got these same combs as below (but paid more than Amazon charges.)


A year later, the kids got lice again, and I still had these combs. Obviously, I have to check everyone in the house when this happens. This time around I was No-Poo, but still transitioning. When I got to my hair (thankfully lice free), I noticed the lice comb was stripping the “wax” from my hair. By the time I was sure I had no parasites, my hair felt gross from all of the stuff the comb was stripping from my hair. So I did a hot water rinse, followed by a coffee rinse, and a cold water rinse.

The next day my hair felt the cleanest it has since I started No-Poo. I found it easier than most of the methods for moving the Sebum down your hair too!

I used this daily at first, now I use them when my hair is too dry or too oily! The combs get dirty looking and I have to wipe it off as I comb through my hair. I also do this BEFORE I clean my hair in the shower, so some ick is to be expected.

This is just one step!

I look forward to sharing more of my No-Poo. If you want to learn more feel free to let me know! I know this is hard to talk about for some, so you can message me if you do not want to publicly comment.

Next time I will go through my personal hair care processes.


Links are affiliate links to Amazon. These are the real products I use. You may find them in your local drug store as well!

Super Easy Dry Shampoo (With extra helpful tip)

So today marks one month No Poo. (No Shampoo) I was super lucky to have very little problems “transitioning.” Transitioning is when your hair is learning to be healthy and pretty without shampoo. I have heard horrifying stories of things people have had to deal with, and I was worried. I promised myself that if things went bad I would stick with the no poo for at least two months. This has gone so good so far, and I think I will stay this way!

One of the things that helped me a lot was homemade dry shampoo. I would never use a commercial one because those are filled with god knows what!

Only two things are really needed to make Dry Shampoo:
  • A shaker bottle (like an old spice bottle)
  • Arrowroot powder or tapioca starch (pretty much the same thing)

If you have reddish hair you will need some cinnamon or cocoa powder for darker hair.

I pretty much only buy Bob’s Red Mill but I was recently told of another brand that is cheaper.

If you are adding cinnamon or cocoa, it may need some work to get the colors just right. I have pretty light hair, so I have been just using the plain starch.

Important Styling Tips

I saw this recipe everywhere, but most people were leaving out some important styling tips. I was lucky enough to learn from a pro! I used to be a model and my first experience with dry shampoo was on a photo shoot. the Hair and makeup girl explained all of this to me, even how to make it.

  • This is not to use every day. I think it would super dry your hair out but I don’t have first-hand experience with that. (I use it at most once a week, but less often if I can)
  • Rinse your hair out at some point. This is for days when your hair is just a little too greasy and you don’t have time to wash it out. With the no poo method, your hair can get a little waxy, and I have found it helps with that. It is a VERY good idea to rinse your hair out. I rinse mine right before bed.
  • You can not expect to shake it into your hair and have a miracle. Always brush your hair before using dry shampoo. After dusting your hair, run your hands through, and then brush it again. This gets the excess powder out of your hair.
  • Here is the tip I never see anywhere else: Use a blow dryer to get rid of the excess powder. Brush it out, then use a lowest heat setting and blow dry it while brushing. You don’t even need to use it more than 3 minutes. I was told; that you always use a blow dryer because otherwise the powder shows up everywhere and looks like dandruff.

I really hope this helps, and I will try to take some photos this weekend of how a month no poo looks on me! I know my kids were surprised by how nice it looks! It is growing faster too!

Maybe I am just a dirty hippy?

And I think I am okay with that!

I preach Love, and Kindness, and would love to see World Peace, but I have never called myself a Flower Child.


So here is my dirty secret:

For almost a year (March 13th, 2015) I have not used aluminum deodorants. Most days I don’t even wear anything other than essential oils. I do have a stick of Tom’s of Maine that I use maybe once a month. I have some homemade stuff that I use once a week or every two weeks. I do use essential oils daily. I kinda change it up, Peppermint or Citrus Fresh if I need energy. Lavender or tea tree if I skipped a shower the night before. If I think I will have a hard day at work I use the homemade or the Tom’s.

I even survived a Texas Summer with little to no deodorant!

Once I survived the armpit detox I don’t even really smell. I think a change of diet helped. I am on a non-GMO diet. (I try to be.)

But that’s not all…

I stopped using traditional feminine hygiene  products. I tried homemade pads but found them more annoying than anything. I thought I was stuck with toxic stuff forever, then I found THINX. The Period Panty! OMG, these are amazing… I recently found out about ICON by THINX. These are for moms and people with weak bladders. Kids destroy our bladders and after a certain point sneezing is scary! I plan on getting some ICON sometime this year.

Wait, there’s more!

As you know from a recent blog post, I am going NO POO! (No Shampoo) I am not far into this, but so far I am excited! Friday will be two weeks!

So far the only issues I seem to be having is my dandruff is a little worse. I was already expecting that. I have been using Tea Tree oil and vinegar to help with that for over a year now. I am hoping that is enough. I made a spray of Rosemary and Tea Tree that I am spraying into my hair every night before bed. I think it is helping some. I know that my hair will also go through a detox or transition, so let’s see how that goes!

You might think this sounds smelly…

Nope. I actually smell quite good. Thanks to diet and lots of water and proper detoxing I don’t produce a lot of BO. I do bathe, and I am very careful to only use non-toxic soaps. They are also GMO-Free when I can! (I’ve recently learned about Perfectly Posh, and I have heard their soaps are GMO-free!) Since I use essential oils I tend to smell like whatever oils I am using that day. To some people, those may stink.

I was using my Focus Oil that I blend myself, and a pregnant girl at work freaked out. She told me she couldn’t tell if it stank or smelled really good. I kinda felt bad about that, so now I try to not wear it around her.

I just started No Poo, so I have heard hair sometimes stinks, but I am not too worried about that. I have a plan set up for keeping myself fresh while I am transitioning.

Are you a smelly hippy too?

What are your dirty secrets? (PS: I would rather be a smelly hippy than call myself crunchy. Isn’t that the term now?) I promise this is a No Judgment blog! I don’t think I could confess the no deodorant or shampoo to people at work, or casual friends. Even my daughter is looked at me weird as she hugged her bottles of shampoo. (I was giving her my old shampoo.) The kids also use nonaluminum deodorant, but I am not sure they know I hardly wear any at all.

Homemade Deodorant Cream Recipe

When I  started detoxing the first thing I did was get rid of all the aluminum in my house. My old pans were replaced with cast iron and glass, we ditched the foil and the most toxic source of aluminum in the house…. Deodorant!


For obvious reasons, I couldn’t just go deodorant free. There are good aluminum free options in deodorants, but they do not work for everyone. Everyone’s pH is different so it takes experimenting to find what works for you.

When changing to natural deodorants your body goes through an adjustment period. If a store bought natural deodorant does not work in the beginning it may work a year later. (That was me and Tom’s of Maine)

First A Warning:

Your armpits will Detox! They will do this on their own just by making the switch. Lymphatic Detoxing and Armpit Detoxing can help!

You will get rashes, and smell worse than normal for a few days to weeks. Plan ahead, and try to not have to be around people. It can be painful.

The Recipe:

This is not a solid deodorant! Please keep that in mind! I am testing recipes for that and will share one when I am happy.

  • 1 cup coconut oil (NOT fractionated!)
  • 1/4 cup Baking Soda (or Arrowroot Powder)
  • 3-5 drops essential oils

Super easy recipe! Just mix everything and store in a glass container!

*Note* Don’t know where to get tapioca flour (arrowroot flour)? You can get it on Amazon, or most grocery stores. If you have an Asian Market, check there, that has always been the cheapest I’ve found.
To use:

Apply under the arms let it set for 5 to 10 mins and dab away excess oil with a washcloth. This is so it does not feel oily or stain your clothing.

If you are baking soda sensitive try arrowroot powder. This is also known as tapioca flour. Just because you get a rash, does not mean you are baking soda sensitive. This could just be the detoxing. If you really are baking soda sensitive, you will have issues with other products too. If you have sensitive skin, and not sure if you are baking soda sensitive, try the arrowroot to be safe!

Choosing your essential oils:

You can leave out the essential oils, but I recommend them! You have an almost endless option of oils too! Experiment with the oils!

Need more energy: Try something citrus or peppermint

Need to kill some smell: Try Tea Tree or Lavender; Citrus can help too

Need to relax some: Try some Stress Away or Lavender

Also, think about the time of year and where you live. Is it cold outside? Your coconut oil will be harder to mix, and harder to apply. You may need to warm it up a little. Is it hot outside? The coconut oil will melt easy and possibly stain your clothing. In a hot climate, you are more likely wear tank tops or lose fitting clothing. So you need to be careful of Phototoxicity. Citrus oils react to the sun. You could end up with a really bad rash that is even worse than detoxing. I made this mistake and it took a month to heal.

This deodorant is effective but potentially messy. After you are done with the armpit detox, you will find you need less deodorant. I used to use this every day, now I use it maybe once a week.

It is important to keep your pits, clean and dry. This also helps with the detoxing! I promise this is so worth the effort!


Although I still use this mix I also found a recipe that I love. The paste is not the best for every day, but the solid one from Wellness Momma is Amazing!